Are there ‘magic’ words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there are words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call. In the Magic of Making Up course you will get the answer to this question.
I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions people ask just like you who are trying to put their relationship back together.
So what is the answer on how to get your ext to return your phone call, text or IM?
In the Magic Of Making Up, you will get the complete strategy.
If you use this technique alone, without an ‘overall’ plan or strategy…you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
What NOT to Say!
Before we get into the actual words, let’s go over what message almost never works.
Puts you in an awful ‘psychological’ position.
These usually fall into two categories. The plead message! This is where the message sounds like: “John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I have to talk to you.”
And the emergency message: “Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this.”
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?
How To Use Curiosity and Self Interest To Your Advantage
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are Curiosity and Self Interest.
And here is the big secret! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that will work like magic.
So…let’s look at what you can say that works nearly every time.
In a friendly tone:
“Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”
Do you see how that uses both curiosity and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Before you call you need to do the “Set Up” which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing however it needs to be plausible. It needs to be real.
But more importantly have an underlying strategy like you will find in the Magic Of Making
Up System before you call.
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more
damage than good if you do not handle it correctly.
What I am saying is before, during and after you get them to return your call it is more important that you have a strategy already in place than getting them to return your call.
Make sense to have a plan, right!